Sure, it's a Hallmark holiday, and sure, it's an opportunity for the retailers of the world to lure people, particularly men, into their stores and showrooms, and sure, it's exploited by clergy and politician alike, but Mother's Day remains a good day. Whether we have good or bad memories of our mothers (or perhaps a mix), we must admit that without our mothers, we would not be here, would not have found life, would not have tasted the marvels of existence. If our mother genuinely loved us, so much the better, for we learned early on that the world is indeed a good place, and that life is indeed an adventure worth pursuing. For those for whom the opposite was true, I'm sorry, deeply sorry. Life was likely not as pretty. In fact, it may have been inordinately cruel. And I hope and trust that as you have spun out your life, you have found healing and remedy, that you have found that even if your mother did not seem to love you, other people do. And I hope that you have learned that God loves you, too.
The sacrifices a mother makes for her children mirror the sacrifices that God makes for us every day, the endless effort he makes to ensure that despite the brokenness of the world, we, humanity, endure. Good or evil, sinner or saint, God loves us all, blessing us with everything we need to flourish on this remarkable planet. Like a mother, God never forgets those whom he made.
I loved my mother (she died in 2010), and miss her much. I'm so thankful God gave her to me, and me to her. And my memories of her love makes me realize, over and over, every day, the enduring reality of God.
Thanks, God, for my mother.
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